Diva Gals from Heartfelt: A Collection of Poems

Diva Gals
By: Nicole Little

I’m talking about those gals who wear stilettos no matter the occasion.
I’m talking about those gals who don’t dress to impress but dress because it’s a necessity.
I’m talking about those gals who don’t need a guy driving a Benz because they got one of their own.
I’m talking about those gals who walk with their head up high regardless of what people have to say.
I’m talking about those gals who stand up for what they believe.
I’m talking about those gals who love their bodies regardless of their bra or shoe size.
I’m talking about those gals who take themselves on shopping sprees and don’t need a guy to complete them.
I’m talking about those gals who speak their mind no matter what.
I’m talking about those gals who don’t put up with any drama.
I’m talking about those gals who don’t put any man over their kids.
I’m talking about those gals who work hard and make sure their kids are taken care of.
I’m talking about those gals who know what they want in life and are not afraid to get it.
I’m talking about those gals who know the true meaning of by any means necessary while still keeping their dignity.
I’m talking about those gals who never make him a priority if they are only an option.
I’m talking about those gals who don’t settle for just being an option.
I’m talking about those gals who know their worth and won’t compromise their worth.
I’m talking about those gals who know their place and won’t settle for anything less then that number one spot.
I’m talking about those gals who live and learn from their mistakes.
I’m talking about those gals who pay rent, pays all the bills and still shops.
I’m talking about those gals who got their priorities straight and know that when they got a good man they better hold him tight.
I’m talking about those gals who take care of their man if and only if he’s taking care of all their needs.
I’m talking about those gals who don’t mind cooking and cleaning.
I’m talking about those gals who are educated and always enlightened.
I’m talking about those gals who have a game plan like every other man.
I’m talking about those gals who never stress because they know that they are too blessed.
I’m taking about those gals who don’t accept being his mistress because they know that they are wifey material.
I’m talking about those gals who know their goals and reach their goals.



Are you a Diva Gal?

Published Author in 2009!!!

Heartfelt: A Collection of Poems
By: Nicole D.Little and Lora R. McLeod

So I am proud to announce that I am a PUBLISHED AUTHOR!!!! Wow God is great and I’m excited about what 2009 will bring as well as the years to come. My mother and I worked so hard to finish this book of poems. We believe that there is a poem in the book for everyone. Remember in 2009 instead of “Keeping up with the Joneses” to keep up with yourself. LOVE and LIVE LIFE. I love all those who love me and love those who hate me even more. Growing up some used to say that I would never make it to any where big. Some wanted me to fail but I knew in my heart that I had the recipe for success. So now it’s my time to succeed and I know it is your time as well. These next couple of months will be hectic for me. But, anyway please have a blessed new year and remember to keep up with yourself and don’t worry about the “Joneses.” You can catch my book on http://www.amazon.com/, http://www.authorhouse.com/ and http://www.barnesandnoble.com/. Be blessed and please support my mother and I. Thanks!!!

Keep up with Yourself!!!

“Keeping up with the Joneses?”
By: Nicole Little

Some may say that the quote, “Keeping up with the Joneses" is a popular saying in many parts of the USA. The quote is often referred to as the desire to keep up with one's neighbors or friends by using the accumulation of material goods. We have even heard the phrase during the world renowned television show, “The Real Housewives of Atlanta.” Co-star NeNe says, “I don’t keep up with the Joneses, I am the Joneses.”

So why are people so focused on keeping up with the “Joneses?” Has celebs really tarnished the minds of the everyday American? I’m thinking so. To keep up with consumer demands banks started giving people loans that couldn’t afford to pay them back. First time home buyers began purchasing houses that were far beyond their budget. Budget? I think so many people have forgotten about that word. Instead of buying things that are affordable people have opted for buying things that look more appealing to their friends, family, co-workers and or associates. Well, I guess now we all are paying for Mrs. Brown trying to be Mrs. Jones. According to the Federal Reserve, over 40% of households spend more than they earn. Americas' average credit card debt in 2007 was $8400 per household. By the end of 2007, consumer debt in America had risen to $2.5 trillion. The year 2008 brought so much heartache to many Americans. They began to loose their jobs, houses, cars, and etc. Un-employment lines became longer and food banks became crowded. Prominent businesses began to close and major corporations began to fold. Could it be that we were trying to live like the “Joneses?”

In college all of my needs and wants were pretty much taken care of by mommy and daddy. If I wanted a new dress for that jumping party all I had to do was call home. If my Acura Integra needed an oil change all I had to do was call home. If I needed groceries for my apartment all I had to do was call home. But, I still chose to open up credit cards to purchase items that I truly did not need. I guess I wanted to be a “Jones.”
Right before graduation I told my parents that I was going to move back home. Yes, move back home. Instead of purchasing a brand new car or get a place of my own I wanted to save and pay off all credit card debt. Soon after I got out of college I realized that mommy and daddy were not always going to be able to hold my hand and supply my every need. I had to work hard and come up with a game plan so one day I would be able to supply a comfortable life for me and my family. When I say comfortable I mean having the big house, nice car, nice clothes, being able to travel and still being able to save and invest my money.

The Mercedes, big house on the hill, fur coat, and diamond necklace will always be there to buy. But, our sanity and happiness will be sacrificed if we try to buy expensive items prematurely. I don’t know about you but I will get all that and more but I’ll assure you that I won’t be in any debt because of those items. I refuse to keep up with “Joneses.” So, in 2009 instead of “keeping up with the Joneses” I’m going to keep up with myself. What will you do?